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Punk Yogi
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Temperament - Personality Types
To those interested, I'm resurrecting some old threads from 2001. I am quoting entire sections from Raja Begum. I won't have time to comment much on them today, so just read and form your own opinions and we can get into this in more detail as time permits.

HISTORICAL BACKGROUND:

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David Keirsey's landmark book was published in 1978 under the title"Please Understand Me." The second edition "Please Understand Me II" -- which I liberally quote from -- was published in 1998. Just five years out of graduate school, Keirsey first encountered the work of Isabel Myers when he took the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) in 1956. The portrait he received -- that he was an INTP "Rational" -- was a profound revelation to him. For the next 45 years, Kiersey has devoted his life to the study of personality and temperament.

About the MBTI I've lifted the following description from another website ( www.bloomfield.edu/orr/mbti.html).....

"The MBTI was developed by Isabel Myers and Catherine Briggs. Their work was based on Carl Jung's theory of Psychological Types.  Having been influenced by World War II, they hoped to develop an inventory that would lead to greater understanding among people -- an effort to lead to a world harmony. "

Isabel Myers was not a fly-by-night 20th century psychobabblist. She was a profound thinker with a pragmatic aim. Her genius was making Jung's cumbersome Theory of Psychological Types practical and available to the scientist and layman alike.

Other predecessors of Myers were Adickes, Kretschmer, Spranger, and Fromm. Quoting Kiersey, these early pioneers of psychology "saw the usefulness of ancient belief that came primarily from the early Greeks and Romans. It was the Roman physician Galen who, developing the ideas of Hippocrates, proposed (around 190 A.D.) that it is neither the stars nor the gods that determine what we want and what we do; rather, it is the balance of our bodily fluids, the four 'humors,' as they were called ....We might smile at this early view of human psychology, but at the same time we must acknowledge it to be a major departure from what had gone before. Our predispositions , said Galen, come in four styles, and from within and not from without."

Kiersey then traces the history of temperament and types further back to Plato, an "Idealist" who predates the Catholic church by more than 4 centuries: "Nearly six hundred years before Galen, Plato had written in 'The Republic' of four kinds of character which clearly corresponded with the four temperaments attributed to Hippocrates. Plato was more interested in the individual's contribution to the social order then in underlying temperament, and so he named the Sanguine temperament the 'iconic' (artisan) character, endowed with artistic sense, and playing an art-making role in society. He named the Melancholic temperament the 'pistic' (guardian) character, endowed with common sense, and playing a caretaking role in society. He named the Choleric temperament the 'noetic' (idealist) character, endowed with intuitive sensibility, and playing a moral role in society. And he named the Phlegmatic temperament the 'dianoetic' (rational0 character, endowd with reasoning sensibility, and playing the role of logical investigator in society."

"A generation later, Aristotle [a "Rational"] defined character in terms of happiness, and not, as his mentor Plato had done, in terms of virture. Aristotle argued that there are four sources of happiness: 'The mass of men,' he said, 'find happiness either in 'sensual pleasure' ("hedone") or in 'acquiring assets' ("propraietari") , while some few find happiness either in exercising their 'moral virtue' ("ethikos") or in a life of 'logical investigation' ("dialogike") ."

Western Civilization owes a significant debt to Vedic lore on the subject of personality types. Starting with Laws of Manu and and the Vedas and culminating with the Upanishads in India. and running a parallel course through the annals of ancient Chinese philosophy, is a schema of a world based on 4 (and sometimes 5) elemental types. The introduction of Vedic concepts to Greek culture is generally credited to a contemporary of Plato named Empedocles of Acragas whose memorable claim was that there are four elements in the universe which account for all its variety.




for more information keirsey.com/


THE POLARITIES:

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introverted or extraverted
concrete or imaginative
impersonal or empathic
structured or spontaneous



for more information
keirsey.com/pumII/dimensions.html



The next post will discuss the NT temperament

Edited by: Punk Yogi at: 12/9/03 3:25 pm
Punk Yogi
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(12/9/03 3:41 pm)
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The NT - Rational
This post was originally from a thread making speculations on Tara Mata's temperament. Raja decided to go for the INTJ "Mastermind" as his guess. At any rate, what is quoted below does apply to all NT's more or less...


THE RATIONAL - NT (intuitive abstract thinker)

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"The way Rationals reach their objective of maximizing efficiency in systems is by analyzing systems in search of inefficiency, which is to say, they look for error in the order or in the organization of systems."

"They can become single-minded at times, which can be a weakness in their careers, for by focusing so tightly on their own pursuits they can ignore the points of view and wishes of others."

"...because of their tendency to drive others as hard as they drive themselves, they often seem demanding and difficult to satisfy. Their fellow workers often feel as if a Mastermind can see right through them, and often believe that they find them wanting. This tendency of people to feel transparent, and even incompetent, in their presence often results in working relationships which have some psychological distance. Colleagues may describe INTJ's as unemotional and, at times, cold and dispassionate, when in truth they are merely taking the goals of an institution seriously, and continually striving to achieve those goals.... indifference or criticism from their fellow workers does not particularly bother Masterminds, if they believe that they are right. All in all, they make dedicated, loyal employees whose loyalties are directed toward the system, rather than toward individuals within the system. As the people in an institution come and go, these NT's have little difficulty getting on with their jobs."

"Masterminds are certain that both internal and external consistency are indispensible in the well-run organization..."

"In general, Masterminds rely on their head and not their heart to make these choices, and at times, therefore, they may appear cold and calculating. Even in more casual situations the may appear cold and may neglect to observe small rituals designed to put others at their ease.

"They have a strong need for privacy"

"Above all else, Rationals want to be coherent in their arguments, and so they try to make certain that each phrase and clause advances the argument, introducing nothing that doesn't logically belong, and leaving out nothing that is logically required. This style produces carefully crafted communications..."

"The basis of coherence in Rational though and speech is deductive inference....While we cannot observe deductive thought,...we can observe the language that makes it possible. Defining words to limit their usage is a deductive process, so too is arranging words in logical order to control coherence, and so too is choosing words to control shades of meaning. Thus the coherence, reference, arrangements, and choice of words tend to be done deductively by Rationals."

"Rationals are unsually exacting about definitions....they assume that their distinctions enable them to control arguments and, it might be added, enterprises. The way Rationals see it, whoever controls categories, controls useful operations."

"Many Rationals are dictionary readers, even specialty dictionaries..."

"[They] also tend to enjoy playing with words"



For more information keirsey.com/personality/nt.html



RAJA BEGUM COMMENTS


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The INTJ is what Keirsey calls "The Mastermind" -- a subtype of the Rationals. Individuals with this typology strive to become the power behind the throne. They are strategic in their thinking and not very empathic as human beings. They can put an ideal an ideology or a system above human needs. Their keen analytical abillities make them masters at spotting blemishes and glitches in a system which they take great pleasure in correcting, And they are experts at bending words to fit their agenda.

Note that they also lack empathy for others. People who cannot make the grade are considered useless. They can often harbor an arrogant disdain for the common man and for common human problems. Do we have any reason to believe any of these attitudes made it into the SRF lessons?



Again, this is in reference to one of the four types of Rationals. The others Keirsey calls the Fieldmarshal, the Architect, and the Inventor.

This isn't meant to tack Yellowbeard like a bug on piece of cardboard. We need to keep in mind that Keirsey's and Myers-Briggs' work was to foster an appreciation of human diversity. In the case of Tara Mata, Raja wanted to see if anyone felt her typological bias had crept into the SRF literature via her ubiquitious presence as Chief Editor.

Punk Yogi
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(12/9/03 4:13 pm)
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The SP - Guardian
The Four Temperaments according to Keirsey are:

Guardian (40% - 45% of population)
Artisan (35% - 40% of population)
Idealist ( 8% - 10% of population)
Rational ( 5% - 7% of population)


Guardians the overwhelming majority of the population. Raja's insight (credit also belongs to Should Free aka Rigitidananda) was that the SRF organization had a noticeable Guardian temperament as its dominant feature. There are four Guardian subtypes. Raja and Should Free /Rigiditananda concluded that SRF was specifically ISTJ or what Keirsey calls the "Inspector." Sound familiar?

SRF bias towards Guardian sensibilities was squelching the members who were in the minority. Eventually, as the organization progressed into deeper states of dysfunction, it began to cannibalize its very own security seeking Guardians. One might call this a crisis.

Anyways, here's Raja's presentation of the Guardian temperament which he liberally quotes from Keirsey's masterpiece "Please Understand Me II"...


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"Guardians seem drawn to the role of social protector, standing watch against the insecurities of life, searching for ways to defend -- both themselves and others -- against loss, defeat, and disappointment, but also against what many of them regard as the irresponsibility of human nature. "

"Guardians naturally assume the role of society's gate-keeper, standing guard at the door and keeping a watchful eye on the coming and going of the people under their jurisdiction. Those without proper credentials (outsiders) cannot be allowed through, those who ignore boundaries (trespassers) must be caught and reprimanded, and those who think they have the right just to barge in (gate-crashers) need to be stopped and expelled --- 'shown the door' as [they] tend to say."

"They are also inclined to caution others about the danger of committing moral transgressions --- 'It wouldn't be right to do that.' And when their warnings are ignored they are the most likely of all to chide or reprove the transgressor, for they are reluctant to let others get away with much."

"Pessimistic in Looking Ahead" ....."Because so many of their efforts are holding actions, trying to maintain the status quo in fast-paced, ever-changing situation, Guardians have learned to expect the worst."

"Change for a Guardian is unsettling" Guardians are the " keepers of tradition, of custom, of continuity with the past.....the new, the improvised, and the innovative, seem almost an affront to time-honored traditions, and are certainly unsettling."

"Let us think of the Guardians as the Security Seeking Personality. "

Vocational Interest of Guardians: "... office work and clerical jobs -- keeping records, checking inventory, attending to correspondence, filing, accounting -- with the brightest of them becoming executives, administrators, plant or office managers, CPA's, bankers, brokers, insurance underwriters..."


SRF has at times represented the best and worst of the Guardian typology.

Here's the ISTJ - Inspector described. See if this fits the organization...


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"These inspectors are earnest and attentive in their inspecting; to be certified as right and proper, all must go under their scrutiny, so that no irregularities and discrepancies are let go by."

"...inspecting the people and things in their jurisdiction -- quietly seeing to it that uniform quality of product is maintained, and that those around them uphold certain standards of attitude and conduct."

"These hard-nosed and silent Guardians have a distaste for and distrust of fanciness in speech, dress and place. Their words tend to be simple and down home, not showy or high-flown; their clothes are often homespun and conservative rather than of the latest fashion; and their home and work environments are usually neat, orderly, and plain, rather than up-to-date or luxurious."

"Most often reporting to higher authorities, Inspectors tend to work behind the scenes, only rarely having to confront others with their findings."

"At work, they are apt to see the company picnic or holiday office party as a necessary nuisance, but are likely to enjoy those events once they arrive and loosen up a bit."

"As administrators, they are patient with their work and with procedures within an institution, although not always patient with the individual goals and unauthorized behavior of some people in that institution."

"These Inspectors are comfortable when people know their duties, follow the guidelines, and operate within the rules -- rules are there to be followed, they say, not gotten around for personal reasons."

INTJ "Inspector" as quoted from David Keirsey's book "Please Understand Me II"...


"For their part ISTJ's will see to it that goods are inspected and schedules are kept, that resources will be up to standard and delivered when and where they are supposed to be. And they would prefer that everyone's attitudes and actions be this law-abiding."

"They can be adamant about the need for rule-compliance in the workplace, and do not hesitate to report irregularities to the proper authorities."

"In orientation they tend to be fatalistic, pessimistic, and stoical as they guard the gateways and look to yesterday."

"They base their self-image on being seen as dependable, beneficent, and respectable."

"...interest in thoroughness, detail, legality, standard procedures, and orderly flow of materiel."



And then Raja goes a step further. He applies Keirsey's description of the Guardian parent to the organization...


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The designated moniker -- "Mother Center" -- implies an organization who is the parent and whose members are its children. So let's see what Keirsey says about ISTJ "Inspector" parents....


"In their parenting role, Inspectors are firm and consistent in handling their children; they make the rules of the family clear and expect them to be followed. A rebellious, non-conformist child may have a difficult time with an ISTJ parent, and visa versa."

"Inspectors care about passing along their work ethic to their children, and will often require them to help with household chores and projects. They patiently teach their children basic home maintenance skills, cooking, gardening, carpentry --- time-consuming activities which sometimes leave them little opportunity to play with their children. The Inspector child is apt to be obedient and a source of pleasure to parents and teachers."


Aren't people in SRF kept obsessively busy with the maintenance of the grounds, ashram chores, and tea and cookie socials? Not much intellectually challenging work within. This would be the dull cow aspect of the Guardians. Notwithstanding there are some smart, even genius, Guardians, SRF basically tries to keep its members from thinking creatively outside the box. That's prohibited in Guardian land. A Guardian's task is to make the box secure. They are more into preservation than exploration.

And finally Raja garners some phrases from another source...

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According to the book "Do What You Are" by Paul Tieger and Barbara Barron-Tieger, the ISTJ (SRF Organization) is culpable of the following work related weaknesses...


Reluctance to embrace new, untested ideas

Discomfort with or resistance to change

Impatience with processes that take too long

Unwillingness to focus on future needs at the same time as present ones

Inflexibility; inability or unwillingness to adapt when necessary

Inability to focus on "the big picture" and see the implications of actions

Lack of sensitivity as to how people will be affected by policies and decisions

Reluctance to change directions and shift gears when warranted

Unwillingness to instigate or support needed change and calculated risks


...The author's final advice to ISTJ's is " The secret of success for an ISTJ is learning to be open to possibilities, consider implications for people, and embrace change."

Listen up oh "Mother of Compassion"!!!!

Edited by: Punk Yogi at: 12/9/03 4:39 pm
Punk Yogi
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(12/9/03 4:21 pm)
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This Is Your Right-of-Passage!
Then Raja sent out an appeal to people of like temperament who felt alientated by SRF but couldn't explain why....

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pub78.ezboard.com/fsrfwal...D=43.topic


Raja Begum
11/28/01


This Is Your Right-of-Passage!

Are you abstract, intuitive and imaginative in your thinking? Are you friendly and find yourself concerned with how people feel about themselves? If so, you might be a member of that small category of people (10 %) who David Keirsey calls "The Idealist" temperament.

SRF is a microcosm of the greater world. In our midst we find various temperaments. Keirsey, in his landmark book titled "Please Understand Me II: Temperament, Character, Intelligence," thoroughly describes four temperament types which constitute the family of man: The Guardians (40% -45% of the population), The Artisans (35% - 40%), The Idealists (8% - 10%), and The Rationals (5%-7%).

More than the other three types, The Idealists are uniquely concerned with issues of authenticity. In fact, their very self-confidence is based on how much they are allowed to strive for and attain it. In an environment which stifles personal creative expression, the mutual exhange of ideas, and the opportunity to intitiate meaningful change, the Idealist becomes numb and estranged from himself like a fish out of water.

SRF is an organization which for the moment is run primarily by Guardians. Guardians tend to feel secure when there is a high degree of compliance among its members. The idea of people striving for authenticity and individual expression is threatening to stability-seeking Guardians. Clearly the two are each others' opposites. And when opposites have to live, work and worship together, there will either be an exchange of the best each has to offer or there will be friction and polarization.

It is the Idealists who seem to understand keenest of all how a disproportionately high emphasis on monastic thinking in the SRF teachings has created the most inhospitable environment for their own self-evolution. Consider the following analogy: Suppose we were to liken SRF to a plot of soil in which certain plants will be grown. Before we plant, we need to know the pH balance of the soil. Most plants do best at a pH of 6 to 7 which is neutral. Some such as rhododendrum, azalies, cranberries, blueberries, and some potatoes do best in acid soils of around a pH of 5.0. Alfalfa, on the other hand, prefers an alkaline medium. Using this analogy, it is clear to see that rhododendrums and cranberries would probably not bode well next to alfalfa. One or the other will end up with a compromised development.

Attitudes, ideas, and beliefs are very much like the substance of an alkaline or an acid. Their addition affects an environment and makes it hospitable to one thing and not to another. And so in considering our beloved SRF as the principle medium in which our lives have taken root, it becomes a necessary question to ask "Has that medium been optimimum one for our flourishing? And if not, why not?"

As an Idealist, I can clearly see that the SRF environment has always been too alkaline for the good of my psychological and emotional development. For as long as I can remember, there was always this feeling that something essential and nutritive was missing. But it was more than a mere deficit that I sensed. I also detected the presence of value system which had a curiously depleting effect on me. At first I thought it was me with the wrong attitude and found plenty in SRF who were more than willing to support that theory. But then I kept meeting others like myself who complained of the same symptoms. I began to wonder what it was that linked me and so many others to the same baffling fate.

As I probed, I was destined to discover that, what many of us had in common, was a similar typology. This wasn't guesswork. I actually had my friends take the Keirsey Temperament Sorter. I administered it to my family, I recruited fellow employees, strangers, anyone who had a half hour to spare. I discussed these ideas for many hours with professionals in the fields of psychology and sociology, and I read the best supplementary books on the subject, In effect, I became an armchair expert in the field of typology and got so good at it that I can't read a novel or watch a movie without seeing how the differences in types generate most of the dramatic tension of a plot.

Knowing one's type is a surreal experience. You spot ones like yourself standing out in a crowd. So it happened in SRF that I found a tiny constituency, my type-kin, on the Walrus site and among the disenfranchised long-timers who became sickened of the status quo -- all of them involutarily prodded by their conscience to become the first rebels en masse of Self Realization Fellowship.

I see now that I was tricked into duty. When I first began this journey into my unknown self, I wanted above all to exact a painful revenge on the organization which starved me on half truths and never looked twice when I stumbled and fell. With as much zeal as I once served the organization, I now found myself wanting to subvert it, to subject it to the same experience of frustration that had plunged me into a crisis of identity and, consequently, a life altering depression.

I must admit experiencing the most intense satisfaction in vindicating myself. It was cathartic like nothing else. Like tearing down a dilapidated house nail by nail until only the foundation is exposed. The very act of sabotage was like muscle pumping in a gym -- I couldn't wait to go back and do more. I sometimes wondered who this new person was. He certainly resembled nothing like the "dear one" (in Daya Mata parlance), the sweet devotee he once was. The new person was more like a Bengal tiger with the scent of blood in his nostrils. He deserved a new name for his new life. The title I felt most accurately fit my mood: Raja Begum.

With my jaws deep in the flesh of SRF, cutting to bone and sinew, I made a discovery about myself accidentally. I discovered quite shamelessly that this predatorial bloodfest was exactly what was required of my growth. It and whatever phases were to follow were leading me onward and upward through the stages of differentiation and individuation. Facing down the gods, deposing false ones, making Matas into mincemeat, I found the Confident One long buried underneath the striations of unqualified deference and perpetual pronams. Only recently is it entirely obvious to me that one's being certain of the spiritual authority of another and the very act of putting that person above one's self are all supreme acts of fiction and projection. If someone is above my comprehension, how can I profess to know what they are? I can't. I can only know myself. The rest is fraternity. That's why Babaji washed the feet of the sadhu at the Kumbha Mela -- because there was nothing else he could be to that sadhu that would make sense. To be the almighty Babaji would have no meaning to the sadhu unless he also shared Babaji's realization. So Babaji, with a profound sense of utility, met the man where he could be comprehended best -- as a humble pedicurist!. Among lesser luminaries, it becomes mandatory for the preservation of our own authenticity that we never give anyone so much awe as to make our own selves invisible to ourselves. Thus finally confronting the the Sernior leadership of SRF and their tenets, I found myself entirely out of their spell. It happened so suddenly that I almost wondered if I'd ever been mystified in the first place.

You may find yourselves undergoing a similar transformation. After many years asleep you are finally waking up to the authentic you, and you can't understand why it had to happen under such bitter auspices. But that's a judgment. In truth the method of your awakening was entirely sensible.. How does one become authentic if he or she continues to put others' thoughts and feelings above his or her own perceptions? It doesn't happen. The only surefire way back to self-authenticity is to eradicate the supremacy of influences of anything that is non-self. This is such a beautiful way to approach God. And it in no way harms our relationship with our guru since, by definition, he is one with us. So the more we approach our essence, the more we shall find him present. The stripping down of outer influences and living authentically by my inner rule -- this is about the only form of renunciation I can practice with any sense of naturalness.. The rest seems like a masquerade of Guardian protocols. My only problem now is to consider what of SRF remains for me?

I'm going to switch from tiger talk to the subject of rhododendrons, cranberries and alfalfa. If what I am is a cranberry, and if what you are is a rhododenron, and if where we sprawl happens to be on the highly alkaline plains of alfalfahood....brother!...we ain't got a chance.. And if all that alfalfa can't see why that's a problem for the rest of us, it doesn't mean there isn't a problem. One of the most revered senior monastics told a close friend of mine that the teachings will not change and, if he didn't like it, he could find another path.. My friend is has been a long time member. So what we've got here is Mr. Alfalfamoy telling Mr. Rhododendron to get lost. But Mr Rhododendron doesn't want to get lost. So he introduces changes into the soil to make it more hospitable. Suddenly the alfalfas are in a panic while the Rhododenrons are reviving their colors. What ought to be a benign pasture turns into another Kurukshetra. . This is what SRF is becoming and will continue to be as long as some higher concilliatory intelligence doesn't enter into the picture.

I can no longer feel the same anger towards the leadership of SRF that I once did. Anger would only mean I feel helpless and vulnerable in my relationship (or lack of it) with them. Instead I feel calm, cool resolution. I know that SRF will change because I see the pieces falling into place. How was I to know that, by walking away, I would come full circle back to the center of the movement. Only this time, I feel I am uniquely giving to it something true of my soul.

What this means? A thorough reexamination of the lessons, the way the teachings are presented, and ultimately there must be some hard questions asked about the leadership and its tendency to douse every aspect of our sadhana with monastic-centric thinking. .

How do you feel? The same as me? Perhaps you are one of the 10%, If so, this world is your oyster. The more you pry at it and make it change, the more you defy that pat Guardian Dictionary definition of "devotee" and become an authentic individual in relationship to the work, the more the work becomes what it is destined to be. You are the message. Don't hold back. Is an Idealist disobedient and disloyal because he followed his Idealist dictionary and not a Guardian one? Can a bird be insubordinate to a fish? Or a rhododendron to an alfalfa?

Trust yourself -- your thoughts, feelings and instincts. There is work to be done. This is your right-of-passage.

Punk Yogi
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(12/9/03 4:27 pm)
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Living Consciously and Authentically
And finally Raja gave us a quote by Dr. Nathaniel Branden which is worth a second look...

Quote:
I have in my files a quote by Dr. Nathaniel Branden explaining the damaging consequences of dissociation. If you feel inspired, you can pick up a copy of his book "The Art of Living Consciously" wherein this eloquent quote can be found:

"To disown means to cease to recognize as our own. We can be alienated from -- inadequately conscious of --- our bodies, our needs and wants, our feelings and emotions, our actions and reactions, our thoughts and values, or our abilities and capacities. We can be strangers to ourselves in many different possible respects. We can act without recognizing the roots of our actions. We can be afraid without knowing what we are afraid of and long without knowing what we long for. These are some of the meanings of self-alienation and self-disowning. "
"A consequence of this process is that we radically restrict our sense of self. We have less access to our inner signals, and consequently we become more dependent on signals from others. We may need others to tell us what to think, how to live, when to express which emotion (if at all), what is right or wrong, and so forth."

"At minimum, we pay a price in suffering, when we inappropriate in our responses and frustrated in our life. But sometimes we pay even a worse price, as when, for instance -- 'What stress are you talking about?' asks a driven, workaholic salesman of forty-eight a moment before he drops dead of a heart attack."

Edited by: Punk Yogi at: 2/9/04 2:08 pm
Ringbearer7
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Re: Living Consciously and Authentically
Whew! That is a lot of material to go through. Very interesting though. I took the test online a few days ago and was a bit suprised to find that I am (or so the test says) a "Rational." Now, my area of work is quite analytical but I never thought of myself as being unemotional or overly severe toward people. I actually would think of myself as more of an idealist...hmmm, I don't know if I can entirely agree with the results of this test. I'll have my wife take it and see what she is! It's kinda fun in any case.

Ringbearer7
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(12/9/03 8:53 pm)
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Re: Living Consciously and Authentically
My honey is a Guardian (SJ.)

SerenityNow7
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(12/9/03 9:40 pm)
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Re: Living Consciously and Authentically
I have missed many postings...so far behind now! Just a short response for now. I am an INFJ with the highest possible score on the feeling continuum when I took the test. I have found this feeling capacity to be a blessing and a curse both in my life. I once worked in a profession mainly populated by INTJ's and ISTJ's and you better believe I didn't fit in! My talents have always been in scientific logical pursuits which is a strange irony.

But regarding thoughts above, yes if one is the "odd type out" you feel it alright or think it (lol) because one's own thought processes are fundamentally different. I think if a group has variety in types this adds spice and interesting ideas, but if it is predominantly one type the group dynamic itself will have the stamp of the one personality type excluding the others.

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Re: Temperament - Personality Types
Punk, I commend you for bringing the Kiersey stuff and Raja’s stuff as well. That batch was one of the most interesting threads I’ve seen around here. As an augmentation to the K stuff, here’s a look at things from a developmental psych pov. I think you will see lots of crossover. (I’m putting into another thread so as not to clutter this one.)

pub78.ezboard.com/fsrfwal...D=22.topic

Punk Yogi
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Interpretation is an Art
To Ringbearer:

If your score shows the Feeling score at 8 or 9 and Thinking score at 11 or 12, that would explain what you feel.

To get the best results, read about the neighboring typologies. For example, if you turned out to be an NT with a T score of 11 or 12, look at the NF as well. Don't approach this thinking about rigid categories. Think in terms of blends as in color theory. Take blue and red. Mix more red and you get a hot fuchsia color. Mix more blue and you get a cool purple. Interpretation is an art.

All typologies feel and have idealism because they consist of human beings. What were looking for are specific characteristics of personality. "Persona" means "mask." What typology does is look at the type of mask we use to interact with the world. Our persona is a useful relic of the ego which enables us to interact and survive with our fellow human beings. It's a very important feature of human survival which is varied, some theorize, depending on the predominance of certain brain chemicals during fetal development. We might add that these chemicals are directed by the soul and karma in cooperation with genetics, etc.


High T types usually keep feeling in reserve and only let it out in relaxed circumstances. I once worked with an INTJ who installed recording equipment in studios. I liked him, but being a strong F type, I couldn't help noticing how taciturn he was. So, on his lunch break, we'd go to the cantina and put a couple of drinks into him. Then he'd get talkative and animated. So it's inside, but doesn't come out without effort or help. If you're naturally effusive or expressively warm you're probably an F type. Get another person's opinion. Eskimos don't notice the cold because they're warm inside.

It is possible to share the characteristics of 2 types. I know several people who came out evenly as an NF and SF (sensate/concrete plus feeling). They would be an ENFP Idealist and an ESFP Artisan. The Artisan in them would be more abstract than the average Artisan, and the Idealist in them would be more pragmatic and sensate than the typical idealist. I can usually spot these types right away.

So your wife is a Guardian. Did any of the descriptive phrases fit her. Guardian wives offer stability to high flying Intuitive and Rational husbands. If you want to post your typologies, I'll do my best to interpret them.


To Serenity Now:

Apply the same analysis as above. The NF can carry some of the attributes of the NT if the scores are near the middle. The S can also be close to the N. It's possible to have a cluster of typologies you flip flop through. If so, read through the descriptions and intuitively decide which one you lean towards. You'll always lean slightly in one direction or another. It's extremely rare, almost a freak of nature, to find someone who is in the middle of all the polarities.

SRF has a high ISTJ and -SFJ Guardian profile. The NF's and NT's are their opposite. Your introversion and orientation to routine and schedule probably allows you to blend in with SRF crowd. But you might yearn for more intellectual stimulation than you're getting. The INFJ is called the counselor. A great typology for one-on-one mentoring and life coaching. Unfortunately those roles have been co-opted by the monastics. Only in the Youth Program have I seen a semblance of anything resembling lay counselors and coaches. But its nothing formalized.

The "odd type out" feeling is what a friend of mine calls the "NF confusion." Like the ugly duckling. NF's are very undervalued and underpaid in society. The first thing I usually hear from a confused NF is "I'm such a strange person" or some variant -- "I feel like such a geek." NF's are abstract but very social. This is torture. Usually NT's can bury themselves in technology and structural thinking like design, architecture, engineering and so on. But an NF needs to work socially but often feels cursed with knowing and seeing too much. A book could be written on it. Many dysfunctions could be eliminated if NF's were given the proper understanding of themselves at an early age before they formed opinions about themselves as odd and inefficacious.

I also want to say that the NT's have their ugly duckling feelings too. But they tend to be more confident because they base their self esteem on mastering systems, ideas and things. They tend to be loners, sometimes locked away in solitary pursuit. They rarely feel that anything is wrong with them. Instead, they usually think something is wrong with everybody else, that the world doesn't appreciate the the depth of their intelligence -- which is often true.


Hope that helps

PY

Ringbearer7
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"I also want to say that the NT's have their ugly duckling feelings too. But they tend to be more confident because they base their self esteem on mastering systems, ideas and things. They tend to be loners, sometimes locked away in solitary pursuit. They rarely feel that anything is wrong with them. Instead, they usually think something is wrong with everybody else, that the world doesn't appreciate the the depth of their intelligence -- which is often true."

Hey, that's me! Ok, maybe there is something to this...

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I ain't braggin' but I'm a INTJ like Tara Mata. Didn't she edit the Autobiography? And was she behind the Lessons?

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Those personalities tests are really fun. I just did the Keirsey test and then also the Jung - Myers-Briggs test (which can be found at www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-...pes1.htm), and at typelogic.com I also found type descriptions that were more meaningful to me than those at the Keirsey site.

In both tests I turned out to be an INTJ, and while I'm anything but proud that this puts me into the same category as Tara Ma, I can certainly see how the freedom of expressing her creativity and independent mind in such ways as in editing the AY (and who knows in what other ways) made an affiliation with SRF not difficult for her. If, for example, she had had to go through the postulant training, she might not have lasted there very long. But at least, now I better understand why I, during the few years I was in the ashram, sometimes had to fight off the desire to walk right out of those gates and never come back. In a way, it was there like in kindergarten; or having grown up in East Germany, the analogy to that system doesn't seem too far-fetched either.

But back to those personalities tests -- can anyone think of someone to whom this type description would apply 8) : "ENTJs have a natural tendency to marshall and direct. This may be expressed with the charm and finesse of a world leader or with the insensitivity of a cult leader. ... ENTJs are often "larger than life" in describing their projects or proposals. This ability may be expressed as salesmanship, story-telling facility or stand-up comedy. In combination with the natural propensity for filibuster, our hero can make it very difficult for the customer to decline. ... ENTJs are decisive. They see what needs to be done, and frequently assign roles to their fellows. Few other types can equal their ability to remain resolute in conflict, sending the valiant (and often leading the charge) into the mouth of hell. When challenged, the ENTJ may by reflex become argumentative. Alternatively (s)he may unleash an icy gaze that serves notice: the ENTJ is not one to be trifled with." (Found at typelogic.com/entj.html)

Edited by: Xnun at: 12/11/03 3:03 pm
username
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I did the tests from your link. I ended up classified as an entj. ( along with 2% of the population ) but I don't think you were referring to me in your comment above.

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N is for you and me, Neighbor
You wanna know what's interesting to Punk about this thread?

Just about everybody here is an N (intuitive/abstract) communicator. We have this in common regardless of the other variants.

Have you noticed how intuitive abstracts are very independent and committed to achieving authenticity? Usually, the NTs either dislike organizations, tolerate or want to control them, or want to debug them. We need NTs for this purpose. They have a great sense of structure and system and can spot out the inherent weaknesses more facilely than the other types. The NFs have their brand of magic too. Thinking in terms of synergy and integration, they endeavor to develop creative interventions for bringing together all of the splintered parts. Both could achieve wonders, but the Guardian element (SJ) in SRF is strong and virtually impermeable.

* Not knocking Guardians. They are the pillars of society. But we need more than pillars in this world.

The point is that all types must work in concert. Each type has its functional and dysfunctional expression. Each plays an important but differentiated role. Like the 4 elements. Earth is different from Water ... but both are equally necessary and interdependent on one another.

SRF unwittingly alienated many of its members by eschewing and suppressing the urge to self-actualization in diverse ways.

Ironic considering all the talk of developing well-rounded human beings and creating how to live schools.

Edited by: Punk Yogi at: 12/12/03 3:02 am
Xnun
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Hi username,
I indeed wasn't thinking specifically of you, but now we'll know whom to ask when we need another leader or guru in our lives. ;)

At the moment I'm really intrigued by this personality type theorie. And since YellowBeard seems to have been leading and heating all the discussions recently, I wonder if he would be willing to take the test as well. My guess for him would be ENTP:

"... ENTPs are usually verbally as well as cerebrally quick, and generally love to argue--both for its own sake, and to show off their often-impressive skills. They tend to have a perverse sense of humor as well, and enjoy playing devil's advocate. They sometimes confuse, even inadvertently hurt, those who don't understand or accept the concept of argument as a sport. ENTPs are as innovative and ingenious at problem-solving as they are at verbal gymnastics; on occasion, however, they manage to outsmart themselves. This can take the form of getting found out at "sharp practice"--ENTPs have been known to cut corners without regard to the rules if it's expedient -- or simply in the collapse of an over-ambitious juggling act. ..."(typelogic.com/entp.html)

etzchaim
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Both I and Mary, the mother of Jesus are INFP's.

"INFPs never seem to lose their sense of wonder. One might say they see life through rose-colored glasses. It's as though they live at the edge of a looking-glass world where mundane objects come to life, where flora and fauna take on near-human qualities."

OK, I just tested as an INFJ as well. Dual personality, I guess, but my personality, at least what I see of it is more of the P type.




Edited by: etzchaim at: 12/12/03 10:43 am
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xnun, I always thought yogananda had to be a (F)eeling type ...

ranger20
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"Both I and Mary, the mother of Jesus are INFP's"

Moi also. The rose colored glasses have always made navigation through consensus reality a bit dicey.

I also realized some time ago that these indicate preferences, and that one has to learn basic functionality in non-preferred areas as survival tactics.

I came to realize this very clearly at a seminar, in which I was with a group of like minded folks congratulating ourselves on being IN's. Someone said, "It's a good thing X (the registrar) is a sensate, in order to keep this together." That turned out to be wrong.

The next morning I observed X set up the coffee maker. She did alright with the filter cone, and loading the water, but forgot to put a pot under the cone. As the hot coffee began to spew out, she observed, "I guess you need to put a pot under there..."

That single incident convinced me like nothing else, of the wisdom of learning basic competence in "foreign" functions. Liking it isn't always the issue. Keeping coffee from spilling on the floor is.

And back to the starting point of the thread, speculations on the SRF leadership, keeping flexible, and not becoming a rigid and fossilized human being is also at stake.

Punk Yogi
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Yellowbeard is definitely an NT of some kind. Keirsey calls the ENTJ the "Fieldmarshal" and the "INTJ" the "Mastermind." According to Keirsey, Rational NT's are skilled in STRATEGIC ANALYSIS.

The most apparent thing about YB is that he's always setting everybody up for the next move. He's "marshaling the field."
He's very clever at backing out of a corner and has the classic dry humor of the Rational.

About the Rational NTs, Keirsey writes, "They are proud of themselves in the degree they are competent in action, respect themselves in the degree they are autonomous, and feel confident of themselves in the degree they are strong willed."

Furthermore, as parents Rationals are individualizers. As partners, they seek mindmates. All this is apparent in YB. He is an individualizer. Though I don't like his tack, I can at least appreciate that, in his own way, he's trying to persuade everybody to be as individual and independent of authority and hierarchy as he thinks he is. Other personality types pick up that he's being manipulative. When they protest, it only hurts the Rational's feelings. It's like faulting a fish for being a good swimmer. They enjoy a good mental skirmish, like a game of chess, and feel distraught when others don't see it as such.

What Rationals need to work on is developing more empathy. Life consists of trade-offs, thus these mind Olympians often forget to practice exercising the heart being so busy flexing their intellects.

It's not easy to disarm a Rational. They are very tenacious when they have a plan in mind, and they will keep at it until they wear their opponents out. One tack they take is to overwhelm others with their convictions. The will go on endlessly strategizing and counter-strategizing until they find a way to disarm you. Nothing gives them as much pleasure as to feel that they've met their match. Recall Alexander The Great's capture of an Indian king. When Alexander asked, "How would you like to be treated?", the captured king repled, "Like a king." Alexander gave the man his kingdom back. If a Rational is on the warpath, he'll make mincemeat out of anybody who can't stare him in the eye. They often only back down when they've tripped others' bullshi-t detectors and have received a blunt reprimand. But you know they're off reassesing the situation, planning their next foray.


Keirsey goes on to say, "their preferred time and place are the interval and the intersection" What this means is that they are very good at being in the "now". Many Rationals are painfully conscious of feeling chained by the very minds that glorify them. They often resort to drugs as a way of loosening up the shackles of the mind. Think of Aldous Huxley for a moment. And I'll bet their are a lot of Rationals who attend Burning Man Festivals and trip out in the desert. They have the necessary detachment to deal with things as they come. Even if they have a bad trip, they can just watch it with detachment and curiosity because they are congnizant that the strangeness of their situation is to be regarded as nothing more than a unique set of information experienced at a particular coordinate of time.

Rationals are skeptical about any new, unfamiliar system. If that system wins their approval, they are fanatic proponents of it. Some of the best astrologers I've met are Rationals. Sri Yukteswar being one of them. For that matter, Tara Mata was a professional astrologer. They love the abstract complexity of the subject. Other Rationals will look at you cockeyed as if you were the biggest idiot
in the world should you mention anything that reeks of mysticism and belief.

The fact that they make up only 5% to 7% of the population makes them often feel out of place with society. If this feeling goes unassuaged in childhood, it may form into a "me against the world" mindset. This is where Rationals can become arrogant and develop narcissism and superiority complexes.

Such individuals turn out to be charismatic leaders if they can learn to lead without condescension and without badgering. They need to realize that other types experience autonomy differently than they do and should not be pressured into subscribing to the ENTJ's version of freedom. Where's the independence of will and choice in that?









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Edited by: Punk Yogi at: 12/12/03 11:59 am
etzchaim
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"The rose colored glasses have always made navigation through consensus reality a bit dicey."

I took the test originally through career counselling. I was told to be an artist and concluded that I had a good chance of being a mystic, but needed to find some way to develop some practicality. I'm writing a book on Practical Kabbalah with illustrations when I'm not painting and working at an extremely boring job.

"The next morning I observed X set up the coffee maker. She did alright with the filter cone, and loading the water, but forgot to put a pot under the cone. As the hot coffee began to spew out, she observed, "I guess you need to put a pot under there...""

Had she been an intuitive type, she would have put the pot underneath despite still being asleep!

Edited by: etzchaim at: 12/12/03 12:50 pm
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